don’t fix it..
Here’s a situation. Let say, you have a thing…something very precious to you…well, at least it’s something that you treasure. There’s a bit of problem with that thing. Something misplaced or a little bit out of shape. It came out like that…and then there’s somebody come…who wants to borrow that stuff..or help it with something…and he/she sees that problem…and give a hand fixing that thing while you were away. Do you like it??
Personally, i don’t like it…i don’t like it very much. I don’t like people fixing my stuff especially when i’m not informed or being asked for permission to do so. Even though it’s out of shape…I don’t mind because it’s like that when it first came. If i want to fix it..i would have fix it earlier before that person put a hand on it. Ok, if he/she is good in this thing…i don’t mind..but what if it becomes worse…and especially when i wasn’t informed that you want to fix it!!..
Something happened last night. I was not ok with it…but i can’t do anything..i don’t want to create more conflict..so, i just kept quiet…i just went to confession and this feeling came out…I know people is trying to be nice and helpful..but it’s my stuff..i have the right to decide whether to fix it or not. But anyway, I would have tell people “DON”T FIX MY STUFF WITHOUT MY PERMISSION” next time. This will never happen again…

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